#Question&Answer: [iDey#1]
So how do I know that
I've found the right one? One of the toughest questions I guess when it comes
to relationship problems. But it’s not so tough after all. It’s super simple!
Understanding is
the first element that guides your components to 'flush' (or work together in
unison) when you seem to be lost in love or lust. And when I say “components” I
mean, physical, and psycho-mental attributes: (psycho-mental being your inner
abilities to decipher and make good judgments),
Like for instance,
you met this girl, she’s pretty, she’s well positioned, she’s all that. But
still something in you still makes you have that feeling like “are you sure
this ain't one of those wild goose chases that would end after a one (or two)
night stands?”
Well most times
what I say to folks who get lost in this mesh of ups and downs of uncertainty
when it comes to their psycho-mental unreadiness as to finding or knowing the
right one is, ask yourself: “is she (or he) the kinda person you want?” “Does
he (or she) consist of everything you need in a woman (or man)? If you have not
laid it specifically clear (to yourself) what you really want, then you won’t
know the right stuff when you find it. And hey! I don’t mean physical
attributes here (coz those can be deceptive); “Then Mr. King, if the physical
is not what you mean, what then?” Yea! Take it or you leave it, everyone looks
good these days; every lady looks cute these days, every dude is sharp in their
jackets and bow ties! So how do I pick the right one in this maze of fabulous
and gorgeous people? Back to the first clue! You should prepare in your state
of mind the kind of person you wish to have as a partner, when this is done,
then you go out seeking for it.
For example, I use
myself as an instance. Sometime in 2008, I had the same problem finding someone
right for me. I had so many lady friends though, gorgeous ones too…but I told
myself something, I said to myself: “What kind of person would fit this “crazy”
dude called “me””? Yea I was younger then, so I had a lavida loca kind of life
style. Finding someone who would FIT my kind of person was my key then to success
(but certainly, I didn’t have this level of wisdom which I do have now, back
then!) So I stumbled amongst a lot of women and eventually even ended up with
the person that most unexpectedly DID NOT understand me. What did it result to?
Unhappiness, and a failed relationship. After the much ado, I now got to
realize that she may not really be so pretty faced, and with a big booty, or
curvy (like most would want), but simply understanding. When I’m upset she just
knows it’s a mood swing…when I’m sad she knows it’s a bad mood, when I’m
excited she knows that I’m in a good mood and not being childish, etcetera.
Such a one was
exactly the one for me…not necessarily pretty faced or…you know whatta I mean!
Wow. I guess I found a tip or two, here...if he understands me, I believe there're less chances of us falling apart. Thanks.
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