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Do you have this eerie feeling that maybe your husband (or Boyfriend) may be cheating on you?

Well worry no more, because they are BUSTED!

We have a few tips which can lead you to the truth:

(or hey? Maybe he’s not cheating anyway ---)

Either way, let’s take a look:

Extramarital affairs are very common among men and women alike. Earlier times, marriage and relationships were concerned divine bonds than a social setup of life. But today, as a result of the modern thoughts and lifestyle, the divinity in life is overpowered by materialistic factors and people often consider the family life as just a necessary social structure. Extramarital affairs and premarital affairs in some societies may not be considered a taboo when looked at from a social view point, but of course, unaccepted when from a subjective view point. 

Why the ‘war’ against extramarital affairs?

• Extramarital affairs are signs of distrust: Affairs outside marriage or relationships are visible signs of distrust to the partner; and the necessary affection-honesty and attachment that comes with a happy home may be spoiled by an extra affair of one of the partners.
• Extramarital affairs lessen the necessary dedication: Extramarital affairs may lessen the dedication which the partners should possess when in relationship. Being attached to multiple partners at the same time is extra responsibility and bondage for any person and the intensity of dedication to the partners may get diverted when having an affair along with family life.
• Extramarital affairs emphasize the mechanical aspects of life. Proceeding with two partners at the same time or having an extramarital affair may truly emphasize the materialistic or mechanical aspect of commitments, instead of the affectionate and loving nature.

 So how do I know my husband is cheating on me?

Men seldom get satisfied with one partner. The physical and mental nature of men tempts them always to strive for more. Thus, comparably, men are found to get into more number of affairs than women. An extramarital affair of a husband can spoil the entire harmony of a happy home/marriage. 

What is expected from a family life or husband-wife relationship, basically is mutual understanding, lifelong trust and unbreakable affection.

Signs of a cheating husband:

• Slight or complete change in behavior
  If you feel that there are certain changes in the behavior of your husband then probably he is in an affair. When he gets angry very often for no reason; when he doesn't show as interest in family matters as earlier; when you feel the warmth of relationship less intense, then perhaps your husband might have fallen into an Extramarital affair. 

• Less time spent with the family
  Many husbands, when in an affair, reduce the time spent with the family. It is when the man feels less interest in his wife, it’s mostly true that he is in an affair. Avoiding the wife or entire family by not being present in the family can be a sign of an affair of the husband.

• Keeping secrets

A person with an extramarital affair may tend to keep secrets from the wife. He may not want his wife to know every occurrence in his life and prefers being alone than being with his wife. Most often the guilt feeling in the subconscious mind prompts them to stay away from the wife and holdback the secrets from her. Quite sad**

• Suspicious phone calls
  Cell phone conversation of the husband can help many wives to identify if the husband is in an affair. Observe the mode and modulation of your husband's telephone conversations. If he disconnects the phone or change the topic as soon as he sees you, then you can suspect him having an affair.
• Immediate trips or late night arrival
  When your husband goes for trips so often which were not pre-planned or pre-informed, then possibly, he may have an affair. Most times, It is only the wife that can recognize such behavior-changes of husband. If you observe that from a time onwards, your husband starts arriving late at home habitually, then he can be suspected for an affair.

• Unnecessary explanations
  Husbands with an affair are found to get into the habit of giving unnecessary explanations for each and every instance in life. When you walk across him while he is on a phone call, he may stop talking and will tell you some unknown person's name he was talking to and some unreasonable subject of conversation.

• Listening to the instincts
  Behavior experts say that listening to the instincts is the best way of understanding if the husband is proceeding with an affair along with the family life most times. A wife being the person who knows the husband completely, can very well understand even a slight change in his life.

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