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7 Ways to win that girls heart you see in public:

Hey fellas! I know it can be overwhelming to see a lady (you like) and make a move. Well, here are some few tips to help you out…make that move, right now dude!

1. Start by making Eye Contact: If you see someone you’d like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal that she’s interested. Why are eyes so powerful? Science seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain’s reward center, the ventral striatum. What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause for celebration! Smile. A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you’re interested in them. If she returns the smile, that’s a good sign that she might be interested. Once you’ve exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language. This will give you a better idea if she’s actually interested.

2. Check Body Language: While reading another person’s body language, male or female, is NOT an exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors to look for that will signal that the person is not interested in engaging in conversation. Respect the girl’s right to be left alone. Is she facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically looking away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions and body language like this probably means leave her alone. Body language is not everything. Women are taught from childhood that they must be pleasant no matter what. If you are going to approach her, pay attention to how she reacts and what she says.

3. Approach and be Respectful: This is the absolute most important part of approaching a girl in public, or in any situation. If she is not interested back off. Remember, different girls have different tastes in guys, or no taste in guys. One girl might just feel that you’re not her type. However, there might be another girl out there who will think you’re awesome.

4. Be Confident: Apart from the fact that she has the high tendency of turning you down; your self confidence will help you go a long way at this stage. (Tip: Make sure you’re well dressed *not expensively, but neat, and well coordinated dress code will go a long way* But DO NOT TRADE YOUR CONFIDENCE for anything. If she’s looking so fly and cool, just be confident…remember, she could be in the right mood to accept you. Even though she gives you the first “check up” of “who the heck does he think he is???” Remain confident…be BOLD, and talk clearly, maturely, and straight forward…throw-in a few commendations (her hair, ear rings, perfume, may help) then try to hold a 3 minutes conversation FIRST before you introduce yourself…this would lighten her up and make her want to know who you are. TIP: Be Friendly: Smile a lot, don’t give that “I’m the BOSS feeling” coz right now…she’s the boss dude!!!

5. Offer her something immediately: As the conversation is going on, dude, offer her something: A Cold drink, an ice cream, something to make her relax and be confident that she has met A TRUE MAN.

6. NEVER (not on your first meeting) say “I love you”, etc: Don’t be dumb guys!!! Ladies have a total of 50 “I love you proposals” per week. Don’t add to this list, or you will bring your efforts come crashing down! Most times she will feel you want to jump the gun, and jump her straight to bed…remember she wants to test you to know if you’re better than her ‘everyday suitors’…be different!

7. Make Plans To Meet Again: If she seems interested and you are still interested, try and make plans for a future meet-up. Give her your phone number or email address. This way she feels in control of the situation. You’ll know for certain that she’s interested if she follows up. Ask for her phone number or email address. If she says no, leave it. She doesn’t owe you anything further, even if she did enjoy your company. Ask her on an instant date. Like ask her if she wants to grab coffee some other day, or a lunch etc, (most will say “Yes”) DON’t make the next date in your place (wrong move) though some ladies won’t mind, but reserve this for maybe the third of fourth date. Always choose a public place for an instant date; you want her to feel comfortable. Have a very nice place in mind if you do ask, or ask her if she knows a good place. That way she will feel in control of the situation.

Thank me later guys!

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