Question&Answer: [iDey#15] 'Valentine Specials!'

Hello MR LEKKI, my name is Chi Chi from Abuja Nigeria. I wanna know: “Why is it that once a guy succeeds in winning the heart of a lady, he tends to lose the tricks that brought them together, thereby not been able to sustain it...”

Thanks.

Hello Chi Chi. We are happy to receive your message. We have been receiving a lot of responses and we have been providing direct counsel and solutions, (without publishing on the blog); but considering your issue deals mostly with a whole lot of other issues we are experiencing today in societies, relationships, and marriages, we then decided to publish your story.

Well, we all know that love can not be ‘acted’ like a stage play. Hence, the partners will be ‘working out of’ a play script. And also, love is a mystery; that is why even The Bible explains love in various dimensions which has not one definition [see 1 Corinthians 13]. Love can be misunderstood in other forms which are not possibly “Love” as it may. A man may love the physical attributes of a woman, and he goes for it with all possible strategies which he can muster, and when he feels he has achieved his “objectives” (which could necessarily be lustful intentions, etc) he may not see any need to go further in having a relationship with the so lady. This is very common in our today’s World.

BUT,

When love is based on sincere intentions; heartfelt motivations, aspects that go beyond physical, or even psycho-motor instances, when that mutual feeling beats these afore aspects, it begins to have a solidity that not even 100 years of association, acquaintance, and or partnership with the two involved (man and woman) can change or alter the strong feelings that was triggered from the onset. Love is not selfish, love those not think of its own, love is kind, and love endures all things, believes all things…Love covers a multitude of sins: Which means, love is limitless; Love does not play tricks: Love understands the others shortfalls, believes in the others prospects; hence, LOVE is the strongest force on planet Earth.

So all these can not be gotten by selfish interests, and it is not a game. For anyone that claims to love another (man and woman) and tends to fall short of his or her motivations over time (maybe because the sex is not good anymore, or he snores too much, or she smells of garlic, and all what nots) wasn’t in LOVE in the first place.

#King.

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